Your First Dance

First Dance at Gordleton Mill
Tess & Pete share their first dance at The Mill at Gordleton

Your first dance is the final formality of the wedding day.
Just like the other individual elements couples want to get it right, especially their song choice.  
Hampshire Event DJs are experienced in making the moment perfect and are often asked to help with something extra special. 
But where do you start with choosing your first dance song?

How your first dance would look in Deer Park at Burley Manor Barn.
Jason & Anne begin their evening at Burley Manor

Emotional Connections

For many people the song choice is obvious.
We’ve spoken before about shared emotional connections in music and these are not just limited to good times on the dance floor.
They might be songs on an album you listened to a lot when you were getting to know each other or songs which played on the radio or streaming service when you first became a couple. 
Some artists actually have certain life moments in mind when they write albums. Ed Sheeran always has at least 2 suitable wedding songs on every album which is why he is a popular choice.
When we start the evening with one of his ballads we end the night with a dance remix of the same song to bookend the day. 

Your first dance at Millbridge Court could look like this
Gina and Adam share their first dance at Millbridge Court on Valentines Day.

Suggestions For Your First Dance

What if you’re not really into music?
We frequently see online discussions asking what everyone else has chosen for their first dance.
Often a bride will compile a list of suggestions into a playlist and try them out by listening to them over and over for suitability. 
This week Spotify published a list of the most popular wedding first dance songs according to playlists curated on their service. Here’s the Top 5:

  1. Christina Perry A Thousand Years
  2. Lonestar Amazed
  3. John Legend All Of Me
  4. Train Marry Me
  5. Adele Make You Feel My Love

If you’re surprised at the lack of Ed Sheeran don’t worry – he featured at 6 and 9! 
The placings of Lonestar and Train suggest the research featured American couples but Christina Perry, John Legend and Adele are often part of our weddings.

Your first dance at Farbridge Barns
Helen and Levi share a first dance at Farbridge Barns.

Discover New Music

First dance selections are often our opportunity to discover new music and artists. 
We remember when James and Kelly married at West Hill Park School and introduced us to a beautiful song by Benjamin Francis Leftwich.
Simon interviewed him later and and after hearing their choice he agreed to record a version of “Shine” for them.
We sent the video on their anniversary as an extra special reminder.  
We should point out we can’t do this every time we play John Legend or Adele at a wedding! 

Holly and Louis dance to John Legend at Three Choirs Wickham.
Holly and Louis dance to John Legend at Three Choirs Wickham


We recommend you always listen to the words and context of a song before considering it for your first dance. 
In 2011 “Someone Like You” by Adele was unquestionably the song of the year and many contemplated it as a first dance without realising it was a song about breaking up.
The same year Jamie Lawson had a hit with a sweet song about unexpectedly falling in love. 
It might be the perfect choice for your first dance song if not for the fact it doesn’t have a happy ending.
When a couple said they wanted it to start their evening we offered to remix the song. With a little bit of digital trickery we have a “Happily Ever After” version of “I Wasn’t Expecting That”.
We often create special first dance sequences which begin with a stripped-down version of a track and segue into the upbeat dance version.
These provide the perfect signpost for other guests to join the dance floor and divert the attention from you.  

Could this be your first dance? Jade & Barry dance to Haley Reinhart at Three Choirs
Jade and Barry chose a new version of an old song for their first dance.


We’re always surprised when young couples chose older wedding classics.
Last August Sam and Sean at Three Choirs chose “Endless Love” by Lionel Richie & Diana Ross, a wedding favourite from 1981.
Al Green “Let’s Stay Together” often featured in 2019.
Often new cover versions of timeless classics are preferred.
Last year our first dances included many modern cover versions of “I Can’t Help Falling In Love With You”.
Popular versions of the Elvis classic include Haley Reinhart and Kina Grannis from the film Crazy Rich Asians. 

Your first dance could look like this at Lainston House
Michelle and Marcus choreographed their first dance at Lainston House

One Chance To Get It Right

Many couples choreograph a routine to go with their first dance like Michelle and Marcus at Lainston House.
Dancing is one of their hobbies so a slick routine came naturally for them.
Other couples hire a teacher and rehearse for hours to practice their perfect routine.
A first dance is one of those moments in life you only get one chance to get right.
Choose a DJ you can trust to deliver the moment perfectly for you, with minimum cheesy chat and impeccable timing. 
Whichever song you pick and however you choose to dance once it’s over the party can start!

First Dance at Three Choirs Wickham
Once your first dance is over the party can really start!

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